Love vs. Need

When I was younger, I dated from a place of deep need. I didn't love myself, even though I gave lip service to the idea of it. My entire identity was wrapped around whoever I thought loved — or didn't love — me. Sis, this isn't love. This is starvation of the soul. I was so hungry for approval that I always needed more. More attention, more time, more validation. And I attracted people that kept me hungry.

When I learned to love myself, I could finally take in someone else's care and savor it, welcome it, instead of consuming it. And that's when I found a truly loving, committed life partner.

What are you doing this week to nourish your beautiful heart? Let me know! 👇